It’s Time to Start Living: Drag Show Celebrates LGBTQ Elderly

By System O’Connell

We’ll always remain bosom friend, friends, daughters and pals. We’ll always remain breast buddies; if life may accept you, there’s me to defend you. Who else but a breast brother will sit down and tell you the truth if I say that your lips is cruel or if I call you rude?

You may initially believe that a Sunday afternoon move display is taking place in the small leather bar hidden away unabtrusively in a strip mall’s northern border of Austin, Texas. It takes a lot to walk out in a town that is passionate about carry and has a variety of brilliant young princesses and kings showing up every time.

Beyond the retro option of having drag queens Minnie Bar and Martini DeVille dance and lip-sync to “Bosom Buddies, ” from the 1956 Broadway hit Mame, the Absolutely Fabulous Sunday Brunch at the has something else to offer. The distinction is that every wife on Sunday is a drag queen who is older than 50.

Being able to travel anywhere where I feel welcome and that I may be around people my age who are within my historical context is healing and very, very critical, said Minnie Bar, 67, who is known in his normal life as Rob Faubion.

“That’s one of the main reasons we wanted to do this present: Travel have fun. Come see some older men impersonating women at the same time as you do tunes you remember, ” Minnie Bar said. You will truly know and you sing along to it, you know. ”

The Southern Ladies Social League, a trio of queens who all play the roles of genteel ( if secretly bawdy ) older women, hosts the show on the first Sunday of every month.

All the funds raised at the brunches, offered by the couple from the excited crowd, goes to regional organizations that help develop the LGBTQ community. The promoters are particularly interested in assisting gay seniors. Recent research has shown that LGBTQ mothers are more advanced than their direct rivals. Since the function began, the Absolutely Fabulous Sunday Brunch collected over$ 8,000 for organizations like that day’s recipient,, an organization that provides links, aid and advocacy for older gay people.

Although he has taken on numerous jobs over the years, including those that included covering Texas events from 2004 to 2008, Faubion said he sees himself as an artist first and foremost.

“I’ve been acting professionally since my teens doing a lot of TV, movies, commercials [and ] quite a bit of theater [including ] international tours and a very brief stint on Broadway, ” he said.

In the 1990s, Faubion began performing with the ironically-named “Austin Baptist Women’s Group, ” which had been holding drag fundraisers since the 1980s. Beginning in 2004, Faubion took over the direction of the well-known ‘La Cage ’ show in Austin, a sophisticated bring cabaret that was frequently seen by hundreds of people. He later expanded his show over the years at a number of gay venues until it eventually became Austin’s oldest continuously operating LGBTQ+ venue. Each performer had to learn the words themselves in order to perform two significant roles as vintage songstresses each night, as opposed to just lip-syncing.

Someone may emerge as Cher, and then 20 minutes after they are Lady Gaga, with a totally different character and achievement type in addition to the appearance, according to Faubion.

The powerful, long-running display was part of a 2000s renaissance at gay venues around Texas. This useful period, which also includes Shout‘s height, likely coincidentally occurred during the same time as Lawrence v., a landmark Supreme Court decision from 2003. Texas, which basically made it illegal to become queer and out queer by overturning sodomy laws that had made it queer in every country.

The recognition of Sunday night revues boosted the popularity of various clubs in town by bringing back a previously uninteresting night. He claimed that these shows helped break down barriers at queer leagues that had previously been hesitant to let drag queens and gender-nonconforming attendees in. And he thinks it contributed to an environment of growing popularity in Austin that blossomed during the same time because more and more right folks also attended bring shows.

Gays and lesbians used to be easy targets in the 1980s and 1990s, but now they are more accessible, according to Faubion. “So that today’s technology does n’t have to go through what we went through. ”

But then, as he’s aged into his 60s, he said he gets ignored in the city ’s venues, yet when he’s simply seeking a drink and friendly conversation.

“ I feel visible when I go downtown, ” Faubion said. I have a lot of knowledge and expertise, which is unfortunate. ”

That’s why places like the Austin Eagle, which prides itself on welcoming people of all ages, body styles, sexual orientation and gender expression, are so essential to the city ’s Transgender community. A quick glance around the room as the Sunday show grew more apparent, confirming the notion that this was a place that welcomes all kinds of people.

In addition to the core trio, each brunch features a rotating series of special guests, like Topaz, who, in his late 60s, is probably the city ’s. A tall, elegant queen, his performances evoke Tina Turner or Diana Ross at the height of their careers. As he lip-synced and posed, the Eagle’s kitchen crew came out to cheer him on. Although the atmosphere is more casual than Faubion’s show two decades ago, where donations were crammed into an overflowing reusable grocery bag filled with pride-themed items, these queens are just as dedicated to staging a good show. Performers like Topaz have been doing this since the AIDS crisis’s heights, when drag revues have all too frequently been used as fundraisers for medical care or funerals.

Places like the Austin Eagle and events like the Absolutely Fabulous Sunday Brunch help to protect queer history and LGBTQ history and raise money for those who are still with the Stonewall generation, the surviving members of the Stonewall generation.

Minnie Bar and Martini Deville took to the stage to sing along to “No Time at All” from the musical Pippin, a song that encourages listeners to never let their lives waste as the performance came to an end.

Oh, it ’s time to start livin’, time to take a little from this world we’re given. Time to take a break because spring will fall in no time at all.

“This show is vital for us as performers because it ’s something we need for ourselves, it ’s healing for us, ” Faubion said. For those of us who are older, I believe it is very important for our community because we do n’t have anything like this that can describe our current state of affairs. ”