Despite folks saying their marriage is “wrong,” an “alpha man” has spoken openly about his love story with a trans woman to give words to people.
Jesse Schwenker, 29, a Florida native, grew up believing in finding “standard” like, where he could support his wife while she stayed at home.
However, the locksmith soon found himself caught in a cycle of looking for partners he believed to be “right” for his “alpha guy” mindset.
Finally, while browsing Instagram, he came across Cassidy Cauley, 25, and fell in love with the content creator right away. They eventually met a week later after exchanging messages.
Jesse had to choose between putting aside his” traditional” values and exploring true love after Cassidy revealed that she was transgender. Now, however, he is defending others with their whirlwind romance despite online critics calling it “wrong.”
Jesse remarked, “There is not a single word or phrase that you could possibly concoct that would really upset me or my girlfriend.”
“All of the criticism is the reason we are quite a strong pair right now.”
No one can get away my or her accept with the person I date.
“As I continue to walk the righteous course of a rare person holding my lady’s side through any storm, I let the hurtful words and death threats merely sit on my head and then clean them off.”
We didn’t share our story because of opinions or likes; rather, we did it to dismantle barriers and speak up for men like myself who are despised for dating trans women.
“I was just looking for approval and someone who would support me through any changes in my life.
Curtis had such an intriguing and motivating tale, and I was intrigued to learn more, he continued.
I was aware of the repercussions when I began dating her, but everything that has transpired has been so worthwhile.
Our main message is that anyone can appreciate anyone, regardless of who they are or their history, and that love knows no bounds.
Up until the age of 14, when she came across a YouTube videos, Cassidy struggled with trying to deal with her emotions and feelings. She had known from an early age that she was at the center of the universe.
The 25-year-old remembered having a “lightbulb” time after learning about someone else’s journey, and soon after, she started the process of transitioning.
She claims her parents have supported her at every turn despite the harsh comments she has received website for being her correct self.
She struggled in connections, though, before falling in love with Jesse.
After finally telling them I was trans, Cassidy remarked, “I’ve heard people say to me before that I’m leading them on.”
Instead of relying solely on that, I just want them to see me for who I truly am.
The majority of the people I dated were just interested in the dream of being with someone like me, and I’ve never really been in a relationship.
However, I was drawn to Jesse’s information when we first met, and he gave me a sense of security and specialness.
He elevated me and assured me that he would always regard me as having a great soul.
They fell in love right away after their first encounter in May 2022, when they connected deeply for a full month.
However, the sentiment was not shared when Jesse told his parents and associates.
He hasn’t spoken to his parents or some of his friends since telling them about his relationship, but he hopes to do so in the future.
I have a couple friends who I lost along the way because they feel it’s embarrassing to be associates with the people I’ve become, he said.
They were never true friends in the first place if they weren’t delighted to see me in love, so this was such a blessing.
In an effort to change the world and argue for those in a similar circumstance, the couple made the decision to share their story on social media.
However, they have been referred to as “scumbags” and “brainwashers” by virtual trolls, and they’ve also been the target of remarks wishing for their dissolution.
However, they’ve developed a “thick skin” toward negativity, where Cassidy and Jesse want to speak up for others and demonstrate that nothing should stand in the way of genuine love.
We are the words of accepting who you are, and I’m tired of seeing people criticized for their physical interests, said Cassidy.
It’s time to make a change because the world isn’t the same as it was ten years ago, and I do n’ want anyone to go through that anymore.
It’s time for people to experience thought and emotion evolution just like everything else.
We do experience discouragement from time to time, but it’s crucial to talk about how we’re feeling, Jesse continued.
Then, I intend to marry Cassidy and start a family so that we can have two children, which we’ll choose.
We want to be able to build a career up like any other “normal” community and instill love in our children regardless of who they are.
Naturally, I want to make amends with my parents and friends, but I’ve made an effort and am hoping they’ll call me back someday.
Who cares if the love I’ve found isn’t “traditional” because we’re content and that’s all that matters.
