Opinion | Restrictive bathroom regulation: “But I gotta come”

Alabama recently passed a bill that introduces a so-called “bathroom act” and places unnecessary and harmful limits on Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion courses in universities in a shift that feels both backward and disheartening.

This law specifically targets transgender and non-binary individuals and prohibits people from using bathrooms that do not relate to their biological sex assigned at birth. This legislation, now in effect, is a striking marker of analysis, poised to inflict enduring harm on many people.

The effects of this policy go far beyond the immediate pain and humiliation of being forced to use a restroom that goes against a person’s gender identity. These “bathroom bills” place transgender and non-binary people immediately in harm’s way, exposing them to increased risks of harassment, bullying, and even physical assault.

This isn’t fanciful; it’s a well-documented fact that these people face in areas that have imposed such draconian measures.

The rationale for such rules frequently crumbles under the slightest scrutiny. In response to unfounded concerns about aggressive behavior, advocates contend that these steps are necessary for protection and safety. However, these claims foster misinformation and perpetuate discrimination against transgender people and are extremely false. There is no evidence to suggest that allowing transgender people to use facilities that are compatible with their gender identity poses a threat to public health.

In fact, these laws put trans people at risk for themselves.

The enforcement of such rules opens a Pandora’s box of privacy violations. The aggressive nature of verifying an individual’s “biological sex” is not only degrading but nearly impossible. It begs the question: who decides, and on what grounds, whether someone is “male” or “female”? The absurdity of employing “bathroom police” highlights the absurdity of this legislation, which disregards any genuine concern for privacy or safety.

The negative effects of exclusionary bathroom policies on transgender people have been made clear by the American Medical Association. Denying access to appropriate facilities not only puts their physical health at risk but also worsens their mental health, making them more likely to experience anxiety, depression, and suicide. Supportive, inclusive policies, according to overwhelming evidence, improve transgender and non-binary individuals’ health outcomes and quality of life.

A troubling panorama emerges in a study conducted by The Trevor Project, revealing the agonizing realities that LGBTQ+ youth face in our schools. The data is stark: over half of LGBTQ+ students encounter bullying, with in-person and electronic harassment prevalent. This issue is not just a matter of adolescent squabbles; it’s a critical public health concern.

The effects of such bullying don’t just include minor depressurization. They ripple outward, exacerbating mental health crises among these young individuals and significantly increasing the risk of suicide. This is not merely a statistic; it is a stark reminder of the urgent need for action.

Our legal framework should strive to keep pace with evolving understandings of gender and identity; however, in Alabama, it has failed. The dilemma of which bathroom to use for a transgender person may seem trivial to some, but it encapsulates the larger struggle for dignity and safety that transgender people face daily.

With these restrictions, a bearded transgender man will be forced to use the women’s restroom, and a transgender woman will have to use the men’s restroom. This is a reality rather than a hypothetical scenario to stoke fear. These are individuals seeking to navigate a world that is often unprepared and sometimes unwilling to accommodate their existence.

This situation calls for more than just tolerance or passive acceptance; it demands active support and understanding. For parents, educators, lawmakers, and allies, it’s imperative to foster environments where all students, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation, feel safe and supported.

With each new freedom that is granted, there is a concomitant responsibility to make sure that these freedoms are upheld with respect and dignity. The well-being of our youth, and by extension, our future, depends on our ability to rise to this challenge. Our humanity, our compassion, and our willingness to understand one another are the beacons that will guide us toward a more inclusive and empathetic society in a world that is teeming with complexity and change.

The moral universe’s arc inevitably veers toward justice, as history has repeatedly demonstrated. Laws like these, which aim to enslave any particular group of people, will eventually be seen as what they are: an embarrassing blemish on our collective conscience.

Inclusion, acceptance, and understanding are not just ideals to aspire to; they are necessities for a just and compassionate society. It’s high time to reject policies that are ignorant and fearful and instead advocate for those that affirm everyone’s dignity and rights, regardless of gender identity.

And the reality is, when you’ve got to go, you’ve got to go.